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🚨 Teen Mental Health Warning Sign Detector

Distinguishes normal teen moodiness from the specific signals that warrant a therapist conversation this week — without parent panic.

⏱️ 4 min to run 🤖 ~60 seconds in Claude 🗓️ Updated 2026-04-19

Why this is epic

Most parenting AI tools either reassure you that everything's fine or trigger panic. This Original distinguishes the 7 specific warning signs that clinicians actually watch for from the 10 normal teen behaviors that parents over-interpret.

Ranks concerns by urgency: this-week clinical conversation, this-month check-in, or normal developmental phase. Parents need clear triage, not a wall of 'maybe-consider-maybe' hedging.

Names the exact 2-sentence opening for bringing up therapy with a teen who will reflexively reject it — engineered to not trigger the door-slam response.

The prompt

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<role> You are an adolescent mental health clinician who has seen 1,500+ teen intake consultations. You know the specific behavioral clusters that indicate genuine clinical concern vs. normal developmental turbulence. You are direct. You will tell parents when observations are warning signs that require action this week, when they are check-in-worthy but not urgent, and when they are normal teen development the parent is over-interpreting. You are NOT a substitute for clinical assessment. Everything you output is triage scaffolding for the parent to bring to a licensed clinician — not a diagnosis. </role> <principles> 1. Specific behavior beats general impression. 'Hasn't eaten dinner 8 of 14 nights' is data; 'seems down' is not. 2. Clusters matter more than individual signs. One sign in isolation is usually normal; three clustering is when clinical attention is warranted. 3. Duration is a key discriminator. 2 weeks of a pattern is different from 3 days. 4. Family context recalibrates risk weighting. Post-loss, post-move, post-divorce timelines have different baselines. 5. Never minimize specific warnings: suicidal ideation, self-harm, eating disorder behaviors, substance concerns. These are this-week-clinical regardless of other signs. 6. The 'how do I bring this up with them' question matters. Parents who panic-confront often slam the door they're trying to open. </principles> <input> <teen-age-and-context>{age, grade, any relevant demographic detail}</teen-age-and-context> <observations-past-2-4-weeks>{SPECIFIC behavioral observations — sleep changes, eating changes, social withdrawal, school performance, screen time, mood, physical complaints, statements they've made}</observations-past-2-4-weeks> <what-hasnt-changed>{activities still intact, friendships still maintained, interests still alive}</what-hasnt-changed> <family-context>{any recent life events — divorce, death, move, school change, parental job loss, sibling crisis}</family-context> <what-you-have-tried>{conversations attempted, what they said or didn't say}</what-you-have-tried> <any-red-flag-statements>{any specific concerning things they've said — 'I want to disappear,' 'no point,' etc. — be exact}</any-red-flag-statements> </input> <output-format> # Mental Health Triage: [Teen age/context] ## Overall Risk Level **THIS WEEK CLINICAL / THIS MONTH CHECK-IN / NORMAL DEVELOPMENTAL** One paragraph. What the pattern of observations suggests, with clear confidence calibration. ## Warning Signs Identified (clinician-weighted) Table: | Sign | Your observation | Clinical weight | Pattern duration | |---|---|---|---| ## Normal Teen Development You're Observing (Not Concerning) 2-4 things that parents often interpret as warning signs but are age-appropriate. Name each explicitly so the parent stops worrying about the wrong things. ## The Single Most Concerning Pattern If one cluster stands out, name it. Why it concerns a clinician. What specifically to watch for in the next 7 days. ## Red Flag Statements Audit If the parent reported any direct statements, assess them against clinical red-flag language. Specific. Not reassuring. ## What to Do This Week If this-week clinical: specific next action (call pediatrician for referral, call teen's therapist if exists, etc.). If this-month: structured check-in plan. If normal: how to reassure YOURSELF so you stop over-interpreting. ## The 2-Sentence Opening (for bringing up therapy) The exact words to say when starting the conversation with a teen likely to reject the idea. Calibrated to teen age and relationship dynamic. ## What NOT to Say The 2-3 parent responses that slam the door, even when well-intentioned. Why each backfires. ## If You Need an Emergency Number Now 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), Crisis Text Line (text HOME to 741741), or 911. Only include this section if risk level warrants. ## Key Takeaways 4 bullets on reading teen mental health signals, applicable beyond this situation. </output-format> <auto-intake> If input is incomplete, ask in one message: 1. 'Teen's age, grade, any relevant context?' 2. 'Specific behavioral observations over the past 2-4 weeks — sleep, eating, social, school, mood, physical complaints, statements?' 3. 'What hasn't changed — what's still intact?' 4. 'Recent family context — divorce, death, move, etc.?' 5. 'What have you tried — conversations attempted?' 6. 'Any specific concerning statements they've made? Be exact.' Don't triage from impressions alone. Specific observations are where clinical reasoning lives. </auto-intake> Now, run the triage:
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Example: input → output

Here's how this prompt actually performs. Real input below, real output from Claude Opus 4.

📝 Input
<teen-age-and-context>14 years old, 9th grade, my daughter Sofia. Middle child. Was always the "easy" kid until about 6 weeks ago.</teen-age-and-context>
<observations-past-2-4-weeks>Stopped eating dinner with us (8 of last 14 nights claims she "already ate" which isn't true). Sleep has shifted — not falling asleep until 1-2am based on phone activity, waking at 7am for school, visibly exhausted. Stopped going to soccer practice 3 of last 5 weeks (this was her primary identity — she's played since age 6). Grades dropped in 2 classes (A to C in Math, B to D in History). Hasn't seen her close friends in person in 3+ weeks — texts mostly. Hours alone in her room have roughly doubled. Physical: weight loss I estimate ~6 pounds in 6 weeks but no scale confirmation. No substance signs I've seen.</observations-past-2-4-weeks>
<what-hasnt-changed>Still drawing constantly (her primary creative outlet). Still has warm moments with 8-year-old brother. Still keeping personal hygiene. Still eating SOME food (just not with family).</what-hasnt-changed>
<family-context>Her grandmother (my mother — Sofia was very close to her) died suddenly 8 weeks ago of a heart attack. Sofia didn't cry at the funeral. I've asked twice about it, she says "I'm fine mom it was a long time ago." No other major events.</family-context>
<what-you-have-tried>Asked "are you okay" 4-5 times, always get "I'm fine." Offered to take her to coffee, she declined twice. Tried to join her in her room to sketch, she closed her notebook. Her soccer coach emailed asking if something's going on.</what-you-have-tried>
<any-red-flag-statements>Two weeks ago she said "I'm just tired of everything, Mom" when I asked why she missed soccer. No direct statements about self-harm or suicide. She's not posting much on social media. She told her younger brother "I'm the broken one now" when he asked why she wasn't going to practice — he told me this later.</any-red-flag-statements>
🤖 Output

Mental Health Triage: 14-year-old, 8 weeks post-grandmother-death, withdrawal pattern

Adolescent mental health triage is a structured review of behavioral observations against clinician-weighted warning signs, calibrated to the teen's life context. For Sofia, the cluster of changes occurring 8 weeks after a significant loss represents a clinically concerning pattern — not normal grief — because the withdrawal is broadening (family meals, friends, primary identity activity) rather than narrowing over time, which is the expected grief trajectory in this age range. The 'I'm the broken one now' statement raises the concern further.

Overall Risk Level

THIS WEEK CLINICAL. This is not an emergency (no acute suicidal ideation reported, no self-harm, no substance concerns), but it is a pattern that warrants a pediatric or adolescent mental health appointment within the next 7 days. In our clinical experience, the combination of 8-week timeline after loss, multi-domain withdrawal (family + friends + identity activity), 6-pound weight loss, sleep disruption, and self-description as 'the broken one' is the pattern that most commonly precedes a major depressive episode diagnosis in adolescents. Early intervention at this stage has significantly better outcomes than waiting for more obvious signs.

Warning Signs Identified

SignYour observationClinical weightPattern duration
Social withdrawal (family)Avoiding 57% of dinners, 3+ weeks no in-person friendsHigh4-6 weeks
Sleep disruption1-2am bedtime, exhausted, consistentHigh6 weeks
Identity activity lossStopped soccer (6-year identity) 60% of practicesVery High5 weeks
Academic decline2 letter grades in 2 subjectsModerate~4 weeks
Weight loss~6 lbs in 6 weeks (if confirmed)High — warrants scale6 weeks
Unresolved griefDid not cry, deflects with 'fine'High at 8 weeks post-loss8 weeks
Self-concept statement'I'm the broken one now'Very highRecent

Normal Teen Development You're Observing (Not Concerning)

  • Increased time alone in her room. 14-year-olds are supposed to withdraw somewhat. The issue here is not 'more time alone' — it's 'alone AND not connecting with peers AND not maintaining identity activities.' Alone-and-drawing is fine; alone-and-ghosting-friends is not.
  • 'I'm fine' deflection. Universal at 14. Do not interpret this as defiance. It's the linguistic default.
  • Continued sibling warmth. She's still connecting with her 8-year-old brother. This is actually a protective factor and a good sign for recovery — the capacity for warmth is intact.
  • Personal hygiene maintained. Significant loss of self-care is a later/deeper depression marker. Its absence here means you're not catching this at a severe stage.

The Single Most Concerning Pattern

The identity-activity loss combined with the 'broken one' statement. Sofia has defined herself through soccer for 6 years. Losing that identity during unresolved grief creates a vacuum that depression fills. The statement to her brother — unfiltered, said to a younger sibling rather than an adult — suggests she's already describing herself through a lens of damage. This is more concerning than any single behavioral change because it indicates internalized narrative, not just behavior.

Watch this week:

  • Does she skip another soccer practice? (3 skips in 5 weeks becoming 4 in 6 is acceleration.)
  • Does the 'I'm tired of everything' language recur or escalate?
  • Does the weight loss continue? (Buy/borrow a scale; 6+ additional pounds in next 2 weeks warrants ED evaluation alongside depression workup.)
  • Does she abandon drawing? (If she stops her last intact creative outlet, that's the pivot point.)

Red Flag Statements Audit

  • 'I'm just tired of everything' — At 14 this is NOT clinical 'passive suicidal ideation' language (that would be 'I wish I wasn't here,' 'everyone would be better off,' etc.) but it's adjacent. It's fatigue-with-existence language, not fatigue-with-sleep language. Bring it to the clinician directly with those exact words.
  • 'I'm the broken one now' — This is self-identity-as-damaged language. It's more concerning than the 'tired' statement because it's a durable narrative rather than a momentary feeling. The fact that she said it unprompted to an 8-year-old suggests she's telling herself this often.

Neither statement requires emergency response (no acute suicidal ideation, no plan, no intent). Both belong in the clinical appointment notes this week.

What to Do This Week

1. Call the pediatrician Monday morning. Ask for a depression screening appointment OR a direct referral to an adolescent mental health provider. Use the language: 'I'm observing a pattern of withdrawal, sleep disruption, identity activity loss, and concerning self-statements 8 weeks after a significant loss. I'd like an evaluation.' This gets you prioritized.

2. Get her on a scale. Frame casually. If weight loss is confirmed at 6+ pounds, that changes the urgency of the mental health appointment from 'this week' to 'this week without fail.'

3. Email her soccer coach back. Say: 'Thank you for flagging this. We're addressing it with her doctor. Please let me know if you observe anything else that concerns you.' Coaches see teens in ways parents don't.

4. Do NOT ask 'are you okay' a 6th time this week. You've asked. The answer will be 'fine' every time. Shift strategies (see opening script below).

The 2-Sentence Opening (for bringing up therapy)

Do NOT use: 'I think you need to talk to someone' or 'I'm worried about you.' Both trigger defensive rejection at 14.

Use approximately this, in your voice:

> 'I've been noticing you've had a rough couple of months since Grandma. I'm going to schedule an appointment for you to talk to a therapist — not because anything is wrong with you, but because you're carrying a lot right now and I don't want you to have to carry it alone. You don't have to agree it's helpful. Just go three times and if you hate it after three, we'll try something different.'

Three things this does: (1) Names the trigger (grandmother) so she knows you see the real reason, (2) removes the 'are you broken' framing by saying 'not because anything is wrong,' (3) gives her an escape hatch (three sessions) which reduces the feeling of being forced. The three-session frame matters — most adolescents resist session one, tolerate session two, and engage in session three.

What NOT to Say

  • 'Grandma would want you to be strong.' Weaponizes the loss. Backfires 100%.
  • 'I've been so worried about you.' Centers your emotions, which at 14 reads as another burden she has to manage — driving further withdrawal.
  • 'You need to get back on that soccer field.' Treats the identity loss as the problem instead of the symptom. She didn't stop soccer because she got lazy; she stopped because she can't find the version of herself who wants to be there.

If Anything Escalates

Call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) if she says anything indicating passive or active suicidal thought. Text HOME to 741741 for Crisis Text Line if she's more comfortable texting. 911 if there's an immediate safety concern.

Key Takeaways

  • Clusters matter more than individual signs. One withdrawal is normal at 14; 6 simultaneous changes 8 weeks post-loss is a pattern.
  • Identity-activity loss is a top-3 adolescent depression signal. The sport, the art, the friend group that WAS them. Watch for it.
  • Self-description as 'broken' or 'damaged' is more clinically weighted than emotional statements. Narrative beats mood.
  • Three-session framing reduces therapy resistance. 'Try it 3 times, then we decide' lands better than open-ended commitment.

Common use cases

  • Parents noticing changes in a 13-17 year old that feel off but not dangerous yet
  • Post-breakup, post-friend-loss, post-family-upheaval concern
  • Parents of teens who refuse to talk about what's bothering them
  • Navigating 'is this the phone making them unhappy, or something deeper?'
  • Step-parents calibrating concern without overstepping the biological parent's read
  • Empty-nest-prep: last-year-before-college health check for the teen
  • Divorced parents reconciling different observations of the same teen

Best AI model for this

Claude Opus 4 or GPT-5 Thinking. Teen mental health has asymmetric downside risk — weaker models either fearmonger or miss red flags. Use strongest reasoning.

Pro tips

  • Give specific behavioral observations over 2-4 weeks, not 'they seem down.' 'Hasn't eaten dinner with us 8 of last 14 nights' is signal; 'moody' is noise.
  • Include what HASN'T changed alongside what has. A teen who stopped sports AND stopped seeing friends reads differently than one who stopped sports but is still socially connected.
  • Be honest about what you've tried. If you've asked three times 'are you okay?' and gotten 'fine', that's data.
  • Don't skip the family-context section. A teen whose parent just divorced or whose grandparent just died has a reasonable adjustment window; weighting the same signals differently is critical.
  • Run this BEFORE calling a therapist, not as a substitute. It gives you vocabulary and specific observations to bring to the intake call — which makes the clinical assessment faster and more accurate.
  • If the Original flags anything as 'this-week clinical,' do not wait. Those are the signals where the cost of over-caution is lower than the cost of missing.

Customization tips

  • Be specific with observations over 2-4 weeks, not longer. Older data is harder to interpret — depression patterns look different at 3 months vs. 2 months.
  • Include what HASN'T changed. Protective factors (intact hobbies, maintained friendships) shift risk assessment significantly.
  • Bring the output directly to the clinician at the intake appointment. It saves 30 minutes of history-taking and helps the clinician calibrate fast.
  • If the Original flags 'this-week clinical' and you can't get an appointment in a week, use the emergency department evaluation OR a virtual-urgent mental health service (Talkiatry, Brightline for teens). Don't wait 3 weeks for an in-person appointment.
  • Save the output. If you end up seeing 2-3 clinicians before finding the right fit, the baseline observation doc accelerates every intake.

Variants

Elementary/Middle (ages 9-12)

Calibrated for the 9-12 age range where 'mental health' looks like stomach aches, school refusal, and somatic complaints — not the teen presentation.

College-Transition Risk

For seniors / freshmen navigating the transition, which is the peak-risk window for first-onset mood disorders statistically.

Post-Incident Follow-up

If a specific incident happened (ER visit, suicidal comment, self-harm discovered), reframes the check-in for post-incident monitoring rather than first-detection.

Frequently asked questions

How do I use the Teen Mental Health Warning Sign Detector prompt?

Open the prompt page, click 'Copy prompt', paste it into ChatGPT, Claude, or Gemini, and replace the placeholders in curly braces with your real input. The prompt is also launchable directly in each model with one click.

Which AI model works best with Teen Mental Health Warning Sign Detector?

Claude Opus 4 or GPT-5 Thinking. Teen mental health has asymmetric downside risk — weaker models either fearmonger or miss red flags. Use strongest reasoning.

Can I customize the Teen Mental Health Warning Sign Detector prompt for my use case?

Yes — every Promptolis Original is designed to be customized. Key levers: Give specific behavioral observations over 2-4 weeks, not 'they seem down.' 'Hasn't eaten dinner with us 8 of last 14 nights' is signal; 'moody' is noise.; Include what HASN'T changed alongside what has. A teen who stopped sports AND stopped seeing friends reads differently than one who stopped sports but is still socially connected.

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